NLP and Modelling – Interview with David Shephard

Posted on September 22, 2011 by Heather

Interview with Dr David Shephard

David Shephard is Managing Director and Head of Training and Research for The Performance Partnership

David Shephard

David Shephard

  • Managing Director and Head of Training and Research
  • Certified Master Trainer of NLP
  • President of The American Board of NLP
  • Certified Master Trainer of Time Line Therapy®
  • Doctor of Esoteric Studies
  • Instructor of Hypnotherapy

David Shephard is the Managing Director and Head of Training and Research for The Performance Partnership. More than a decade ago David left his career in Electronics and Information Technology to begin his quest to discover how to enable people to create the life of their dreams. His ferocious curiosity led him to study personal development on many levels, from the purely scientific to the truly magical. He has the ability to take some of the most complex ideas and distill them into a simple system that anyone can learn and use.

He is a Master in his field.

Not only that, David has recently founded his ‘A Date With Excellence’ programme which specifically focuses on NLP Modelling. He invites models of excellence to go through the NLP modelling process in a free public session and then together (David and the modelling subject), they create a training programme from the information gained. The training allows those who attend it to replicate the outstanding results of the person modelled.

Check out David’s next modelling ‘training’ weekend ‘Selling from Nothing’, here

Connect with David on Facebook here
If you think you know all there is to know about sales think again. And if you’re coming from zero in your business this is for you!

I am so very pleased to present an interview with David Shephard

 

Part 1

Part 2

 

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I’d love to meet you in person sometime soon.

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NLP and Leadership – Sue Knight

Posted on September 28, 2011 by Heather

Continuing on this weeks leadership theme I had the greatest pleasure of interviewing Sue Knight today!

Sue Knight

 

Introducing Sue Knight…

I am an international consultant and author, pioneering the use of NLP for people in business. My work includes and goes beyond NLP in my aim to support us all to discover our unsuspected greatness in this chaotic, challenging and turbulent world.

Writing is one of my loves and I am an author of several books including the international best seller NLP at Work and NLP and Leadership. Other work includes conferences and ‘one to one’ high performance coaching sessions. I am blessed to be accompanied by a wonderfully skilled team of trainers.

Part 1

Part 2

Thank you so much Sue.

You can access Sue’s web site for details of her trainings at http://www.sueknight.co.uk/index.htm

And if NLP ignites your curiosity then sign up for our free resources using the form at the top of the page or check out my website and next NLP Practitioner training at http://www.excellenceaddicts.com

I’d love to meet you in person sometime soon.

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Interview with Master Marketer Mike Klingler

Posted on October 5, 2011 by Heather

Introducing Mike Klingler

Mike Klingler

Mike Klingler is an Internet Marketer of integrity, authenticity and he’s a really nice guy.

He’s a man with a vision and a mission that has allowed him to be very successful in his field of expertise.

What does he say about himself?

Co-found Coaching Cognition, founder Marketing Merge, Renegade University, Renegade Professional, Marketing Funnel Mastery, School of Online Business
When you merge your value with your core values — you become more valuable to others, opening yourself up to new financial and personal fulfillment opportunities. Seek and you shall find!

The Interview… Part 1

Part 2 – Mikes 3 Tips for Success!

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Geoff Thompson Master Class – Personal Transformation

Posted on October 12, 2011 by Heather

Geoff Thompson

Today’s blog is devoted to the introduction talk given by Geoff Thompson at his Master class.

Introducing Geoff Thompson and his own teachings on Personal Transformation

About Geoff Thompson

Geoff Thompson
Bafta Winning Writer, Teacher, Martial Artist

Until the age of thirty Geoff Thompson had worked through a plethora of menial jobs, from glass collector to floor sweeper; he even spent a decade working as a nightclub bouncer.

Convinced that there must be more to life than this, Geoff decided to become a martial arts instructor (polled as the number one self defence instructor in the world by Black Belt magazine USA) then followed this by living out his dream of becoming a writer.

He is now the author of thirty-four books published in 15 languages, five multi-award-winning films (one BAFTA nominated, one BAFTA winning), three stage plays and hundreds of published articles.

Geoff’s autobiography, Watch My Back, has been adapted into a major motion picture, Clubbed.

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You can invest in the book Shape Shifter from Geoff’s site at http://www.shop.geoffthompson.com/acatalog/Books__Motivational___Self_Help.html

I will be putting a short training together using NLP and some other techniques that you can use to help find out what you want. If you’d like further details of that, please register using the box at the top right.

Take action, begin the homework and I’ll see you tomorrow.

http://www.shop.geoffthompson.com/acatalog/Books__Motivational___Self_Help.html

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Hypnobirthing – The use of Hypnosis for Childbirth an interview with Paola Bagnall

Posted on October 26, 2011 by Heather

Todays blog is on the fascinating subject of using Hypnosis to aid childbirth.
I really wish I had known about this when I gave birth!

Interview – Paola Bagnell of Inner Power Hypnotherapy

I had the greatest pleasure of interviewing the wonderful Paola Bagnell who has recently published a book on her own process of hypnobirthing – Inner Power Hynobirthing.
Her book is Birth Made Easy – it is a bargain at £12.99!  Both the HotHive and Amazon are selling it cheaper than that too!

The publisher, the HotHive, link  is

http://www.thehothive.com/products-page/?product=16

and Amazon
http://www.amazon.co.uk/s/ref=nb_sb_noss?url=search-alias=stripbooks&field-keywords=birth+made+easy+paola+bagnall&x=21&y=20

And her web site is

http://www.innerpower.co.uk/index.html

About Paola…

I have a degree in Biology and am a qualified teacher with over thirty years’ experience, formerly in a comprehensive school and then in a sixth-form college.  I retired from teaching in July 2004 to take up hypnotherapy full time.

I became interested in hypnotherapy when I learnt self-hypnosis in order to control the pain from a shoulder injury.  I discovered the innate ability we all have to heal ourselves, if we desire to, by harnessing the Inner Power of the mind.

I am a fully qualified Hypnotherapist from the LifeForce School of Therapeutic Hypnotherapy at Regents College, London.

I was trained in Self-Hypnosis also by the LifeForce School of Therapeutic Hypnotherapy at Imperial College, Knightsbridge, London.

I specialise in:

Working with cancer patients, helping them to remain calm and in control of their treatment with minimal side effects
Working with ME patients, helping them to have more energy and control any pain
Working with  IBS, and many other illnesses, helping the client to be more relaxed and so in control of their health
Overcoming phobias
Overcoming panic attacks
Better quality sleep
Hypnobirthing, helping mothers to enjoy a wonderfully natural pregnancy and childbirth

I am a director of The Hypnotherapy Association.

I am on the UK Hypnotherapy Register. 

I am on the National Public Register of Hypnotherapists. I am therefore UKCHO registered and my unique Registration Number is 80091. UKCHO stands for UK Confederation of Hypnotherapy Organisations.

I am a member of the The Complimentary & Natural Healthcare Council. CNHC is the UK regulator for complimentary healthcare practitioners.

I am bound by a Code of Practice and Ethics which ensures the highest level of care.
http://www.thehypnotherapyassociation.co.uk (see Code of Ethics and Practice)

I am a member of the UK Guild of Hypnotist Examiners.

I am also a qualified practitioner of Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT), which is accredited by the Association for the Advancement of Meridian Therapies (AAMT).
http://www.meridiantherapy.org

I am a member of the International Holistic Therapies Directories.
http://internationalholistictherapiesdirectories.com 

I am also a qualified REIKI practitioner and am a member of The UK Reiki Federation.

The Interview

 

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Interview with Sue Knight – Training and NLP

Posted on November 2, 2011 by Heather

We enjoyed the first interview so much we thought we’d do another.

This one was helped m with a real powerful shift in my thinking about how I train NLP. Enjoy!

Introducing Sue Knight…

I am an international consultant and author, pioneering the use of NLP for people in business. My work includes and goes beyond NLP in my aim to support us all to discover our unsuspected greatness in this chaotic, challenging and turbulent world.

Writing is one of my loves and I am an author of several books including the international best seller NLP at Work and NLP and Leadership. Other work includes conferences and ‘one to one’ high performance coaching sessions. I am blessed to be accompanied by a wonderfully skilled team of trainers.

The Interview

 

 

 

Part 2

 

 

If you’d like to know more about Sue her website address is
http://www.sueknight.co.uk/
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The Art of Giving until it Hurts and Destroys

Posted on April 7, 2012 by Heather

There’s a beautiful message out there in the world that if you give unconditionally then it comes back to you often tenfold.

A magical message that, similar to the Secret most people deliver without covering the whole picture, the other side of the coin, which for some people who listen to the half message, results in very unfortunate outcomes.

 

People are giving until they are without, they struggle to survive, they believe that sacrificial is good. They give, give, give unconditionally – and yes this is especially true of women. They give until it hurts them, without thought for self-care and self-worth. Because they are constantly being told it’s the right thing to do.

You see, most people don’t finish the sentence. Give unconditionally and without expectation, receive unconditionally and without expectation and have unconditionally and without expectation – then abundance flows and grows.

As with all things it’s about balance and flow. From an energetic perspective it’s about allowing the flow, and the fair exchange of energy.

Our thoughts and beliefs and values create our reality.

If we believe we are meant to give, give, give, in order to live the perfect life of goodness and spirituality, without accepting that part of the balance is to receive and have then we give ourselves away. We give away our value and worth and end up wondering why the universe/god is not supporting us, after all we are doing what we’ve been told and what we believe to be right and good.

And Having? Why is having so important?

This one has been my own personal realisation, light-bulb moment, nemesis.

 

You see I have been a giver and eventually I learned the open to receive part and yet little changed.

Why?

Because no sooner had I received I would give it away – in all manner of ways. I hadn’t given myself permission to have. I didn’t value myself enough for me to have for me first.

It all came out in an exercise of simply keeping 10% of everything that came in, 10% of everything I earned for me to HAVE.
You put it in a box, a bank account and you simply have it. You can invest it in Gold or Silver or assets and you never give away the capital sum – it just grows every time something comes to you. 10% of everything.

This is how you build personal wealth.
You can give freely with the rest. The receiving and HAVING is crucial though.

Do you know how difficult I found this?

Give it a try – no excuses about how little you receive now. You will constantly be where you are until you acknowledge you are worth HAVING for.

So my rant?

Talking purely about giving unconditionally is like promoting food and forgetting water.
From one who literally gave away everything over and over again before she figured it out, please give the full message.

I hope this message is valuable to someone.

With huge love and positive intention.

Heather

 

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Interview with Master NLP Trainer and Author Jeremy Lazarus

Posted on January 30, 2012 by Heather

Who is Jeremy Lazarus?

Jeremy is a former management consultant and Finance Director, with over 20 years’ business experience. He is now a Certified NLP Master Trainer as well as a business and sports performance coach. He has been training and coaching professionally since 1999. He is accredited as a trainer by The Association of NLP (ANLP) – which is UK based. He is also an accredited coach with the Association for Coaching.

He is a former semi-professional footballer, who has represented Great Britain in international sporting competition.

Jeremy Lazarus in now helping Britain’s elite pistol shooters in the mental aspects of their preparation for the forthcoming 2012 London Olympics.

Jeremy is a guest lecturer at Middlesex University on sports science courses, and is an accredited lecturer for the MA in Applied Coaching run in partnership between The Performance Solution and the University of Derby Corporate.

Jeremy is the author of the number 1 best-selling books (on Amazon) Successful NLP and Ahead of the Game: How to Use Your Mind to Win in Sport, and has appeared in the media numerous times.

He has a passion for helping people achieve better results faster, often breakthrough results.
Visit his Sports specialist website, WinningAtSport.com.

The Interview

 

Thank you Jeremy!


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Going Right Back to The Beginning to Get Your Business On-line.

Posted on January 18, 2012 by Heather

To me, the change to business that the Internet has brought about in recent years has created a global shift and an opening up to allow things that were more difficult before.

What do I mean?
It has opened up a wave of creativity, a move from the logical and stiff structure to the finding your voice, revealing the authentic you, finding your passion, your message, informally and unashamed sharing with the world.

 

  • If you’re a writer your words can be read by millions.
  • If you’re a singer your song s can be shared across the globe
  • If you’re a musician you can share your passion and play to millions
  • If you are a teacher you can teach across the world
  • If you’re a coach you can coach groups at a time and help them shift in their lives.
  • If your’re technical you can write software, creat designs, invent and get your goods out there in a way that has never been possible before.

This is why helping people get out and achieve this there is my passion.

And I begin right back at the beginning. Getting you to uncover what you want to share, what you want to express, where your passion lies and who is the authentic you?

Why?

 Once you have your story, your strengths and your passions uncovered, then we can work on building a business, using the internet and technologies, Social Media and Product launches to help you to reach those who need you, your perfect customers. You will then be delivering authentically, aligned with your values, doing what you love for people who have been waiting for you to show up.

 

Then there’s the business stuff, the strategy, the planning , the awareness building, creating your following, your products, your conversion systems and moulding it to fit your life – the life you want.

 

This is why I’m Passionate About Technology, the Internet and Social Media

On a day when policing of the internet is at the heart of the news I pray that we do not lose what we have just gained.

The internet is truly the way that we can change the world through communities and minds connecting and sharing to create a brighter future.

Yes I am aware that the Internet is not all good, yet it has the power to unleash individuals from a bleak future imposed on them by the systems that are failing. And those same systems are aiming to restrict and control a revolution they are only now waking up to. The freedom to create you life and express the best version of you without barriers and boundaries, other than those you impose upon yourself.

 

I see so much potential, so much good as we move into a new age of authenticity and individuality. And it is my desire to help individuals and companies to serve the world in as big a way as they want to.

I hope you’ll join me in my dream of making the world a better place.

 

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Do you Have Hidden Treasures?

Posted on January 17, 2012 by Heather

What have you collected from the past? What mementoes and trinkets do you hold onto?

I ask because I have very little from my past and yet I know I have the important things with me.
I haven’t seen my ‘treasures’, the things I decided were important enough to cling to for over six years.

Now most, de-clutter specialists would say that if I haven’t seen them in six years I don’t need them.

  • I don’t have pictures of my son growing up and those magic ‘firsts’ he made.
  • I don’t have pictures of me growing up, with my first dog and me sitting wide-eyed on the sofa.
  • I don’t have my Judo certificates, or my A-level and O-level certificates.
  • I don’t have the music I listened to through the years, or the favourite vase I had.
  • I don’t have my collection of cookery books and kitchen equipment I loved.

And I haven’t felt sad about it until now. And yes I’ve decided I may not need them, but I’d like them.

 The ‘Story Finder Process’

I’m working on my ‘Story Finder Process’ – a product of mine, and it has really highlighted that while we are required to let a lot of things go, parts of me are still energetically tangled in that collection of ‘stuff’ I held on to.

Yes I’ve probably paid for the contents three times over yet some of them are truly irreplaceable to me.

I haven’t lost it all – I believe it’s still waiting for me to go and sort it out in Durban, SA.

And mixed within that treasure trove of what’s left of my past are a few memories of why my stuff is in South Africa and of the man who invited me there.

Yes we must move from the past and create new and amazing futures, but it’s good now and then to respect where we have been, who we have been and who with.

One day soon I’ll get to unpack and to sort through the things that are now meant for a different life, a different version of me I could never have imagined. And still some things will be precious reminders that I have lived.

If you’re interested in The Story Finder Process, drop me and email at Heather@heatherbond.me and I’ll send you the details.

It has never been so important to tell your story as it is now.

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Remember When You Succeeded?

Posted on January 16, 2012 by Heather

Greatest Successes

It’s easy to forget your achievements and successes — whether it’s being a parent, running a marathon, achieving something small yet important, or taking the first steps to start your own business.
Our successes are personal to us and we all define success differently. There is no right or wrong. How we feel about a successful moment tends to include a feeling of satisfaction, pride, accomplishment.

It’s a worthwhile exercise to really take time out to document those things you have achieved in your life that made you proud, that you did against the odds, where you stepped out of your comfort zone.

You can include some of these in your on-line profiles, as evidence when attracting clients or when applying for work.

Keeping the details in a journal creates a resource that you can come back to when maybe things aren’t going so well and you could do with reminding of how amazing you really are!

The important thing about your greatest successes is how they make you feel now as you look back.

So, let’s get to your greatest successes.

In your journal, use the age ranges and see if you can’t come up with at least on greatest success for each age span.

I’d like you to specifically take note of events that occurred in the following time blocks.

Allow your unconscious to come up with the answers and you may be surprised to come up with events from the first range.

Time Ranges
Prenatal Conception to birth

  • Infancy and Birth–2 years
  • Early childhood 2–6 years
  • Middle childhood 6–11 years
  • Adolescence 11–18
  • Early adulthood 18–40 years
  • Middle adulthood 40–65 years
  • Late adulthood 65 years–death

Describe the success in as much detail as possible. Include what you saw, what you went through, what you heard, the emotions, the challenge and what motivated you. What was your why? Tell the story of your achievement and if you have some sort of evidence, photo or keepsakes then find it to go with your story.

Make sure to include how YOU made a difference, what you overcame or what was extraordinary and describe what made you proud.

 

 

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Are you Open to Change or Transformation?

Posted on January 15, 2012 by Heather

I’m being a little indulgent in this post and exploring something that has challenged me for many months.

If you’ve read a few of the earlier posts on my blog you will know that I’ve gone through a massive period of self-discovery and examination and a period of finding my own voice over the past 2 years since my partner died suddenly.
And I thought I had it sorted.
Except over the last two to three months I’ve gone through even more shifts.

Letting Go Again

What I have discovered is that I haven’t had to simply make changes to get the results I want in my life, I’ve had to transform.
I’ve had to let go of the ideas about me I held as true and let go of the old goals that got me through the last 2 years, that gave me the focus and motivation to carry on.

I’ve had to let go of old patterns of thinking and hopes and dreams.

I’ve been sitting on the fence of confusion and conflict too scared to commit to where I can most help and combine my skills and talents, to reach the greatest audience and make the biggest difference, just in case somehow I got it wrong.

I have taken Part…

I have dabbled, I have learned, I have challenged myself and pushed beyond personal boundaries as I encourage everyone to do on their path of growth.

And behind the scenes I overcome some tough personal challenges to get to where I am, comfortable to accept the transformation.

To get to the point where I acknowledged my skills and talents and where I clearly see they fill a need, where they help people in a different way, my unique way, I have just had to let go.

I’m giving myself permission to come from my voice again (I acknowledge that hasn’t always happened in the last few weeks of transition) and to play at 100% with my new voice and direction.

Transformation

I feel the world is transforming, my friends are transforming and embracing a life different from the one they imagined.

I guess that’s the power, knowing when to let go of your own fixed expectations to allow something greater than you ever imagined to take their place.

I begin to share the results of my transformation this week on this blog and on social media.

For you…

I invite you to  check if you’re making things tough for yourself by holding on to a dream that’s no longer valid for you and just maybe that thing you don’t think you’re quite good enough for is the thing you’re perfect at.

Have an amazing week!

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Do you need and won’t receive?

Posted on January 14, 2012 by Heather

When you are offered help, how often do you refuse?
When you desperately need money and someone offers to help do you refuse?

When your friends need help how often are you the first to offer?
If someone needs help financially and you’re in a position to help how often do you offer?

How do you feel when you know you‘ve helped someone? Do you think others would feel the same way if you allowed them to help you?

Do you think that in refusing the gifts others offer you, you are refusing the gifts from the universe?

The universe doesn’t always offer the solution you want but rather the solution you need. Be open to the gifts being offered and you’ll be surprised by what shows up!

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How to Change Your Mind for Better Results

Posted on January 13, 2012 by Heather


Have you ever found yourself constantly feeling stuck around a situation, or not being able to move forward in a discussion or negotiation in order to reach a solution?

What if you could create an alternative result that would move you forward or instantly come up with options from a stuck place?

Reframing

Reframing is a powerful coaching and NLP technique that assists you to quickly achieve a mind shift that frees you to get the results you want or to find a solution that you just couldn’t see.

Reframing in NLP is a linguistic tool which we can use to quickly and easily change the meaning of things, so that we can change our response/behaviour/outcome.

Context Reframe

The frame is also the context. We give something meaning from the context/frame we have a round it.

For instance eating fish and chips with your hands in a fish and chip shop is perfectly acceptable while eating fish and chips with your hands at the Ritz is not. It’s the same behaviour in a different frame/context.

Questions to ask yourself in this situation are, where would this behaviour be acceptable?
When would that behaviour be effective?
Where would this be an appropriate response?
What behaviour would be more effective?
What would be an appropriate response?

Content/meaning reframe.

In this reframe we change the meaning of the behaviour. So for instance if you’ve had a bad day and your partner comes home from work and watches TV you may choose that this means they don’t care, they’re not attentive to you.
On another day when you yourself are busy the same behaviour would probably go unnoticed.

If you have a problem or you’re feeling stuck you might say something like…
‘Whenever X happens I respond Y’

Questions you may ask yourself  - What else could this behaviour mean?
What is it that I haven’t noticed (in this context) that will bring about a different meaning and therefore allow me a different response (behaviour)?

E.g. What is it that I haven’t noticed about my partner watching TV at the end of the day (that they’re relaxing and it’s only for a short time) that will bring about a different meaning (they just want to unwind before we have ‘us’ time) and therefore allow me a different response (I don’t mind that – they love me enough to unwind first so that we listen to each other).

Reframing allows us to give a different meaning to our experience and therefore reach a different result/response (behaviour)/outcome.

How can you apply this to areas  where you aren’t getting the results you’ve been hoping for?

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Interview with Arvind Devalia Coach and Author of ‘Get The Life You Love’

Posted on January 12, 2012 by Heather

 

Introducing Arvind…

All you need to know about me

  • My name is Arvind Devalia, but my name and yours is just a label for convenience. It’s what we make of our name that really counts.
  • I may not yet have all the answers for you and the world, but I have a heart yearning to give and share what I have.
  • I may not have made the most of my years to date, but I can assure you that I will do whatever it takes to make it happen for a better world to my dying day.
  • I may have two degrees and many certificates and accolades, but I am still ignorant and learning about what really matters in life.
  • I may be of Indian origin and living in the UK, but I am a citizen of the world.
  • I may have made many mistakes in my life and will make many more, but know that my intention is always to learn, become a better person and to serve you.
  • I may not have the finest looking site or the most popular blog, but know that I will always give you and the world all I have.
  • I may be getting “old” in years, but I will be forever young at heart:-)

Arvind’s Blog http://www.arvinddevalia.com

The Interview – Also on YouTube

I will share inspirational but practical advice on how to make it happen so that you have a better life – and also how you can leave the world a better place.

  • Create your legacy
  • Simplify your life
  • Strive for excellence
  • Eat and live healthily
  • Improve all your relationships
  • Make the most of your work
  • Find your joy and achieve happiness
  • Adopt the principles of personal social responsibility

And much more.

What I believe in

1. We can all have abundant, peaceful and happy lives.

2. We are here to make the most of what we have and leave the world a better place than we found it. This includes creating financial abundance for us, living healthy lives and having loving relationships.

3. Everyone has a right to live with dignity and respect.

4. There is no limit to our ingenuity in improving the lives of our fellow human beings – we just need the will and desire to do so.

5. Ultimately we all want to live peaceful lives of contribution and making a difference to others in our own small or big way.

6. We are here for a short time on the earth and it is up to each one of us to create a lasting legacy for those who will follow us.

7. Though we may face challenging and at times seemingly impossible odds, we will ultimately prevail and the world will be a better more just and safer place!

Contact Arvind

If you’d like to connect with me please look me up:

Thank you, friends.

 

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Are You Stuck and Finding it Tough to Move Forward? Could You Be Resisting the Flow and Resisting Systems?

Posted on January 11, 2012 by Heather

 

When you look at the planet and you take a long hard look at nature, it is made up of flawless systems which are in flow with the unseen energy of intuition and telepathic communication. Bees and ants for instance, carry out seemingly miraculous feats naturally and effortlessly. It’s when you work a system, in flow and intuitively that balance brings about amazing results.

Flow and Systems are Possible in Everything

And this goes for everything. It goes for your business, your health, your relationship, your family. Working out systems (habits, routines, processes) that work you and practicing them intuitively.

Take Health for instance. If you followed  a system of only buying what is good for your body and stopping to think about what your body feels like after eating certain foods, it would be easier to choose a diet that suited you.

In work if we find something that works then turn it into a system or process so you’re effortlessly performing repeatable tasks rather than stressfully reinventing.

In relationships, take the time to work out how you best work together. What are each other’s strengths and where can you help each other out? What takes you half the time it takes your partner?

Go With the Flow While Working the System

These are just some basic examples of working with the flow rather than against it.

 Nature created magical systems. Be aware of these and respect them.
In some ways most animals are wiser than us. They know when they’ve taken enough. They know how to support for the good of all. They acknowledge and know that they are important to the system, to the whole. They don’t need to be told, they intuitively KNOW it.

 

Just remember to listen, to become aware, to be present. Know when you’re forcing and when you’re flowing. Know when to stop and allow. Mother Nature and the Universe can provide in greater ways than we can. Allow the flow and the magic and equally know when to action the system, and support the flock/community.

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